If your friend could not understand
why you kept saying “Sorry, I can’t make it…” for good reasons,
then probably he is unable to cope with your mounting absence in the imminent days.
You could give countless of good grounds or explanation
but he would not be able to put his trust in you
until you’re able to show that you are available to him – as a friend.
If you are a friend, then be a friend…
Others can see that you really cannot make it to any outings.
To him, you are a friend whom he can rely on.
You may be a good friend, or a best friend,
No matter what it is, do your best to make yourself available…
I felt disappointed when one of my close pals couldn’t meet me.
Even when she’s near me…
She is not interested to go out with me?
Or she has to accompany her family?
Whatever good reasons she gave, I would still feel upset.
And I believe, another good friend of mine felt the same way.
I kept telling her that I couldn’t make it because I’m quite busy.
Our free time is so much different.
But how do I show her that I appreciate our friendship?
The answer is: Little things matters
Each person’s method is different.
So you’ll need to find out, by yourself, how little things you can do for your friend.
