Hello guys, how are you doing? Sorry for not updating my blog. Today I've something to write. Keep on reading...!
I realized that how important it is to talk with your own family members, no matter what things you want to share. It really is important that you must have a good relationship with your parents and your siblings. It is vital to have a good communication with them, because they're the only ones who stand beside you when you're in need of someone.
My relationship with my mother wasn't good. I tried to tell her things but the words couldn't come out, as I was afraid of what she might say. I'm terrified of bad feedbacks because I'd lost the mood to discuss and the things I wanted to share disappear from my mind. That is why most of my friends knew what's going on but not my family. I'm certain that the news would get to them but it's better than I tell them directly.
Well, if you think what I was doing is right, probably you're doing the same and I could say that it's wrong! It's never right to put your family aside. Don't you believe that things will definitely be alright between you and your family if you put faith that everything will be fine? I never thought that my relationship with my mum would be fixed. I never thought of it. I do blame her for certain things. I couldn't get what I want. I was a very selfish person last time *i am still a little now...sigh* I used to hide things from her because I know what she'll say. I never let her know with whom I hung out with last year or where I went with my friends. She was very protective of me! And she is still thinking that I am childish.
Close to the end of the Pungent Year '06, I noticed the difference. I began to open my mouth to talk to her! Well, the first thing I shared with her is about my soon-to-be boyfriend *who is now my ex* She told me some thing that has been stuck in my mind like for a long time, which is "Treat all of them as your friends first and see if you both will get anywhere".Too bad I didn’t listen to her and see where it got me. It's certainly best for us, youngsters to open our small ears and listen to their great advice. Now, I was so close to her that I want to pick glue and stick us both together. Last week, I was having my semester break and I go to work at 1pm. So I'd be free in the morning and usually that's the time for her to lepak. So, whenever I heard her coming out from her room, I'd move a little bit. And when she checked on me, I'd look up at her and ask her if she's going anywhere.
I'm really happy that God has made me close with my mum although I never ask for it. I really appreciate what she has done for me and I'm trying my best to make her happy so that she won’t be upset anymore.
I realized that how important it is to talk with your own family members, no matter what things you want to share. It really is important that you must have a good relationship with your parents and your siblings. It is vital to have a good communication with them, because they're the only ones who stand beside you when you're in need of someone.
My relationship with my mother wasn't good. I tried to tell her things but the words couldn't come out, as I was afraid of what she might say. I'm terrified of bad feedbacks because I'd lost the mood to discuss and the things I wanted to share disappear from my mind. That is why most of my friends knew what's going on but not my family. I'm certain that the news would get to them but it's better than I tell them directly.
Well, if you think what I was doing is right, probably you're doing the same and I could say that it's wrong! It's never right to put your family aside. Don't you believe that things will definitely be alright between you and your family if you put faith that everything will be fine? I never thought that my relationship with my mum would be fixed. I never thought of it. I do blame her for certain things. I couldn't get what I want. I was a very selfish person last time *i am still a little now...sigh* I used to hide things from her because I know what she'll say. I never let her know with whom I hung out with last year or where I went with my friends. She was very protective of me! And she is still thinking that I am childish.
Close to the end of the Pungent Year '06, I noticed the difference. I began to open my mouth to talk to her! Well, the first thing I shared with her is about my soon-to-be boyfriend *who is now my ex* She told me some thing that has been stuck in my mind like for a long time, which is "Treat all of them as your friends first and see if you both will get anywhere".Too bad I didn’t listen to her and see where it got me. It's certainly best for us, youngsters to open our small ears and listen to their great advice. Now, I was so close to her that I want to pick glue and stick us both together. Last week, I was having my semester break and I go to work at 1pm. So I'd be free in the morning and usually that's the time for her to lepak. So, whenever I heard her coming out from her room, I'd move a little bit. And when she checked on me, I'd look up at her and ask her if she's going anywhere.
I'm really happy that God has made me close with my mum although I never ask for it. I really appreciate what she has done for me and I'm trying my best to make her happy so that she won’t be upset anymore.
p.s: my sister told me that a customer in the shop kept praising my mum because she has a nice smile. nice eh? and a friend of mine said that her smile is dead gorgeous too :)
2 say(s):
that's your mother??? whoa..sama la...!
EH!
sure same lar..
hehee...someone said my smile's same as hers.. :D but hers more sweet :P
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